Saying yes to to get everyone's approval vs saying yes because there are times when it is the right thing to do and saying no really means you are being stingy....................................................................... Sure , i want people to like me but at the same time if someone is in need of help and i can assist , then i see that as a good deed....Very easy to walk away and say NO ...................................Yes i have done that with people who are energy vampires/ always taking and never giving back...................................I have seen the commercial on TV for Yes MAN and it seems even goofier than the flick....................The film has left an impact on me because i know that i say No to myself way to often........

People always seem to ask me how I got to do what I do and how I've worked with the people I have etc. The one thing I always say is... "What's the worse anyone can say to you... No?" And if they do, I dust myself off and move on. I don't let No stop me with moving forward. See while everyone else is stopping at the No... I'm not and that has always helped me. I very rarely if ever say No to anything. Doing this has really changed my life over the past eight years or so. And even more so in the last seven. Besides that I also believe life is also about "firsts". Some of us have lived for some time now and some times it's difficult to figure out what "firsts" you could do yet... but it's funny, if you really think about it there are still a lot of "firsts". From food to going some place to anything. Again, not doing it is kind of like a No... doing it is a Yes. :) If I say, "Do you want to move mountains this year?" What are you going to say? :)

Jim Carrey and Jerry Lewis both drive me nuts and i am about comedy But his act did not spoil the movie....No offense Jim... Snow balls will be flying tomorrow.....Thanks for your encouragement.