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Inauguration Day 2009

Rihanna and Chris Brown

This is a very sad time for two real great and young performers.  The blogosphere is blowing up with innuendo, commentary, and a whole lot of judgement.  What you know: something happened to cause injury to one or both parties. There is now a new "rumor" for lack of a better term that there is a third party involved, at least according to The View.  What you don't know: the facts and details. To speculate, condemn, judge, decide who is right and who is wrong, who is the victim and who isn't, before you have the facts and details is not the direction to go in.

Case in point: I personally know of two separate cases, both where the police were called, both where the actual aggressor was the woman, one of which the police sat and watched through the window before they came in and arrested HER because she was doing the beating, the other where he was arrested, humiliated, but later vindicated. Things are not always as they seem, wait until the facts are clear, then you can proceed with your judging.

One more thing: You become or tend to manifest in your life what you do not resolve.   What you also may not know, Rihanna is very good at emotional pretense -- which she has done more than once as a "joke". On the other hand Brown grew up in an abusive home. Wait for the facts.

One last thing:  One of the things I noticed in all of the remarks posted:  Some of these postings appear to be from people who are either in  or were a part of abusive relationships.  If I am talking about you, and you are in this kind of relationship, get up get your things and get yourself to the nearest shelter where they will support and help you make the transition from victim to victor.  Get help.   If you are an abuser,  there is nothing anyone could ever do that justifies psychological, physical, sexual, emotional abuse.  Remember how it felt when you were abuse.  Have the courage to get help today.

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